Friday, June 28, 2019

Swipe L or R

Tinder.  I signed up! haha!

I wanted to share my experienced with it, so here it is.  Its easy app, swipe left to Nope and right to Match. If you both match, thats the time you can send a message to the matching person.. Ive chatted to few people both male and female.. I made chat friends exchanging mobile numbers to transfer to the viber app.

I noticed that there is a trending questions mostly asked.
- Location
- Status (Single, married, divorced, separated)
- Why am I at Tinder
- What am I looking for

and my answers;
- Mandaluyong (nothing more specific than that)
- Single, Never been married, No Kids
- Looking for someone to chat, passing time
- to chat with and maybe friends who i can meet organically

And I noticed the last two questions are usually the "deal breakers".  Meaning if the person is interested on continuing the conversation or not..  If its a good conversation, 2 hours tops, you'll be exchanging numbers and move to Viber.  I think, this is because the Tinder app lacks the ability to send photos.  If you want to see how the person looks you just check their profile page.  The profile page consists of name, age, bio/info, work, school, and uploaded photos. which photos are probably not their current photos.. Haha! You'll be surprised that the photos some uploads are year or some image of none person..

Anyways here is mine..


Thats my main photo, a cup of coffee with a planner.

Simple. I believe it should show the impression that I am a steady person, nothing rowdy, loves to have coffee and plan my day ahead. Just simplicity, nothing fancy.  
Now when you swipe right on my account you'll see 4 photos.. 4 Photos of me with my dogs, and  one of those photos is me, with sushi and pumpkin and the stroller.. I placed this to show that Im a serious Furparent to my two adorable and lovely four-legged-babies.. 


After all , "Must Love Dogs"


So thats it.. Just a brief sharing moment I wanted to share and immortalised that I gave up and signed in Tinder. Lols

Thursday, June 06, 2019

I Miss you, C

"I miss you"

I want to tell you that, Chad.

But instead..

I'll get busy to have no time to think about you.
I'll forget you to forgive you.
I'll find happiness to not be sad for you.
&
I'll someday I won't  be think about you.

Monday, June 03, 2019

Click Unfriend



WOW!

He is so true to his word, he UNFRIEND  Me..

I didn't expect that cause its an immature thing to do.. But I guess Im not the ONLY child in the ex-relationship..

Im still in shocked.. I dunno how I would described the feeling..  My face felt numb and could only feel my heart betting.. Is this how true shocked really feel? Im just speechless..



While I was washing the dishes, a thought came to my mind.. a question that I may or may not know the answers.. 

Why do some men choose not to change? What does it make them to want to change? 

In my relationship, it’s not like I’m asking him to change for the worst.. I’ve ask my exe to call me on special occasions or emergencies, rather than texting me.. I don’t understand why that simple request is hard for him to comply? His reply to me on my question is, “take me for what I am (PERIOD).” 

Is my request really a big deal? Are there really men out there who refuses to change?

Sunday, June 02, 2019

The Handyman Part 1

I find myself heartbroken again.


Thinking back to my old boyfriends, I search my mind on how i got over each one of them. But instead my mind pop up the scenarios of the time when I broke up with them, how i handled the ending chapter of my love stories. I realised two things in common;

1. Me breaking it up
2. Feeling lost

I've was told myself that breaking up can't have a good ending. Like ending it gracefully, ending it up civil. It has to have the drama, the fights, the exchange of hurtful words, shouting, and cursing. I do this for me. the only step i know how to move on. Afterwards, I need to change, learn to unlearn, forgive and forget. Now this the tricky part, its you, yourself is the teacher and the student, at the same time. Which metaphorically, the Teacher is the Mind and the student is the Heart. A battle that I now have to face everyday. 

Should I follow the heart because of the one reason that made me stay for 5 years in the relationship, or my mind which constantly reminding me that, this is not the relationship I want to live for the rest of my life.  

Now I comfort myself by writing this. I need to change, learn to unlearn the love that Ive known for 5 years. I hope this time, time will be my friend and make it easier. 

My goal is write, till there is no more feeling to express, no more words to share about the Ex.


 

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