Blog-huh?

I don't know what came up to me. I started listening to my podcast, called "sex is fun". Then I suddenly got the urge to write about my thoughts about sex. First of all, try not to judge whatever I will share. This is the reason why a lot of people don't post this kind of topic out in the open, cause people tend to judge and give labels. I guess (just) for tonight, i don't care what people will think of me, after reading this post. So anyways, like I was saying... I was listing to my podcast, the topic is about "getting the perfect sex partner". This is not fair! Especially when your a girl. The mentality with a boys vs. girls. He can have sex with multiple partner and he won't be called names. Girls on the other hand, have at least 2 partner is granted to be called a slut, and these is just one of the names being created by who knows who. If things were different and there is no such things as slut, whore, tramp, or in the olden days, scarlet woman, I guess I'll be enjoying my sex life. Now now, friends, your safe. I won't be sharing details about my sex life. I was though after all, that ladies don't tell, well, at least not to drop names. Haha! But No. Seriously. If being opposite of monogamous for girls, will be judge fairly with boys. I think a lot of girls are having kinky sex right now. I know I would. This is the only think that keeps me away from casual sex. The fear of being badly labeled. I give a damn about what people think and say to me. And yes, I'm getting a little irritated right now. Cause. A lot of guys pa naman now a days, can't keep their mouth shut. They have to share it with there buddies and (with the more harsh males) give more details that they should be. Maybe its a guy thing. As of tonight, I don't even wanna know why. I just agree with the saying that "men are from mars and women are from venus". I'l deal with that later on. I just wanna vent out with the stress of females don't get the same respect as men do when it comes to causal sex. I know some of you (mostly men) might think that its alright, tis normal, we don't think of it that way. But if you like the girl (a lot), and learned that she had more partners than you did, i bet you would think differently of her after that. I'm not saying less respect. More of a, beautiful water color painting that he liked so much, its the center piece of the house, then one day,he splashed the water color painting with water. After it, its still beautiful, but not the same as it were before. Are you getting it? I apologize. I dunno what came up with me and I used a water color painting as an example. But for sure, you get what I'm saying. It won't be the same. The girl won't be the flawless girl that you used to know, until the day she came clean to you. If its was he other way around, most girls accept it, cause its acceptable in society that men do get more of the casual sex. If you a vagina, instead of a penis, you'll be bothered like me. And everytime there will be opportunities for casual sex, you'll be thinking twice before unbuttoning your pants.